How to Manage an RSD Crisis
Emergency strategies for calming the emotional storm and returning to rational thinking when a Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) episode arrives.
What to Do During the Crisis
When an RSD crisis begins, the amygdala—the brain's threat detection center—takes control (Amygdala Hijack). At this point, the prefrontal cortex that thinks rationally is completely shut down. The reason why telling yourself "There's nothing to be upset about here, you're exaggerating" is of no use is because your logic center is not home right now.
What you need to do during a crisis is not try to change your thoughts, but cool down your body and nervous system.
The 24-Hour Rule: During an RSD episode you may want to resign from your job, end your relationship, or send harsh messages. Take no action whatsoever. Put down the phone. 24 hours later, this feeling will have passed completely.
Sensory Shock: Washing your face with ice-cold water or holding ice cubes in your hand triggers the "Dive Reflex," stimulating the vagus nerve and immediately slowing the heart rate.
Physical Release: Crying intensely, shouting into a pillow, or short-duration intense exercise (like jumping jacks) allows you to expel the adrenaline and cortisol built up in the body.
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Long-Term Management Strategies
While therapy and mindfulness work for ordinary mood disorders, because RSD develops in fractions of a second, it is nearly impossible to catch pre-crisis thoughts. Therefore, long-term management is generally possible through biological interventions and self-compassion.
Medical Support:
Since RSD is a neurological nervous system over-stimulation rather than a psychological reaction, conventional stimulant medications sometimes may not work (and in some cases may even increase sensitivity). Experts have found that blood pressure medications known as Alpha-2 agonists (Guanfacine and Clonidine) treat RSD to a very large extent by physically calming the nervous system (this is a matter you should discuss with your doctor).
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> Write this sentence somewhere and read it during crisis moments: "The pain I'm feeling right now is 100% real, but the thought causing me to feel this pain may not be real."